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Dark days!

         

Sometimes we think the Lord will never bless us. We have lost hope, have given up, are stuck in a rut and can't or won't move forward and given up even trying. Some of us give up on our relationships, give up trying to make things right, give up on having a better life. 

We all have dark days, days when we just can't seem to get anything right, we all suffer from broken hearts, loss, go through some really difficult times in our lives but it's important to struggle on and fight, to never crumble but to be strong and remain in christ. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel.  

We may choose not to notice that God is blessing our lives because it's easier to live like there is no hope, it's easier to put the blame onto others, blame society for our failings so that we don't have to  look to ourselves to see how bad things are. We choose to deny the good things, we choose to ignore the positives, we choose to be blind to Gods glory and power. 

I believe that anyone can overcome anything with God and be a success and be victorious, we may try and try on our own but we will soon crumble, but with God it's the only way to victory. Dark days don't last forever, in fact it is a time to learn and grow and become strong. 

In those times we must trust that God is for us and not against us, we must trust that God is good, God has a purpose for all things and when we trust, we see the truth and the purpose and the light.
 
No one is going to to change our circumstances, change our lives and make it better, no one is going to fix broken relationships or make amends for our mistakes but ourselves. It's time to stop blaming others. It's time to stop blaming God, take responsibility and be strong! 


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