The value of marriage

I see marriages falling apart on TV, I read about marriages torn in half in magazines and I hear about seemingly rock solid couples crumbling before my eyes and although I am not married and I don't know what goes into a marriage it seems to me that no one really values it anymore.

I believe that nothing should come before your marriage, not work, money, socialising, distance, or petty disagreements. Nothing!

if i was married and I knew things were heading in the wrong direction and I knew the cause, I'd do anything in my power to change it, fix or stop it from happening because I believe marriage should be what we live, breathe and die for, your partner should be your priority, marriage is sacred and sometimes we need to put in a little more effort, work a little harder and find a positive even when things are so dire and be willing to work at it.

Marriage is more valuable than money, marriage is more valuable than fame. Marriage is more valuable than travel. Marriage is more valuable than disagreements and arguments and it's so easy just to give up and walk away when really we need to stay and carry on and value it.

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