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A reminder

Sometimes we need to be reminded of certain things because we have either forgotten or we have lost sight of what's important. Sometimes with relationships there is a build up of tension and anger and a lack of communication that it's difficult to see why couples get together in the first place but sometimes they just need to be reminded of what they love about each other and what they had in the beginning and the fun times they had together. 
Sometimes we can be discouraged and lack motivation for the jobs that we do but we need to remember what is was that drove us onto that chosen career path and what we hoped we could accomplish and where it would lead so that we can ignite that ambition and that motivation once more. 
Sometimes we need reminded of where we came from because we've lost sight of who we are and allowed money and fame to consume us and dictate who and what really matters and we need to remember our struggles and appreciate what we have. 
Sometimes we need to be reminded of how far we've come because it's easy to forget and easier still to fall back into old patterns.
We tend to live in the moment, we instantly react to things and get so consumed by anger or resentment and all other kinds of negative emotions and become so bogged down by all the rubbish that we are blind to anything else, we can be blind to how much we are loved, how much we are cared for, how much we mean to people, we're blind to how much we are needed and how much we are blessed by family, friends and by God and sometimes we need to be reminded.


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